How to Choose the Right Children's Spoon for Your Child

By Robert Welch® Designs | Stainless-steel cutlery, knives & cookware | Published: 2026-10-24

Category: How-to Guides

Learn how to pick the perfect children's spoon for your toddler. Consider size, material, handle design, and safety to make mealtime easier and more enjoyable.

Quick Answer

Start with a small, lightweight spoon with a soft, easy-grip handle. Look for 18/10 stainless steel for durability and safety, and choose a size that fits your child's mouth comfortably.

Why Material Matters for Your Child's Spoon

Stainless steel is a top choice for children's cutlery because it is durable, non-porous, and easy to clean. 18/10 stainless steel, used in many Robert Welch children's spoons, offers excellent corrosion resistance and a smooth finish that won't harbor bacteria. Avoid plastic spoons that can crack or contain BPA, and be cautious with metal spoons that have sharp edges.

Handle Design and Grip

A spoon with a thicker, contoured handle helps small hands grip and control the utensil. Look for designs with soft concave detailing, like the RW2 Bright Children's Spoon, which provides a natural resting place for little fingers. This can make self-feeding less frustrating and more successful.

How to Choose the Right Children's Spoon: Step by Step

Check the Size: Choose a spoon that is small enough to fit comfortably in your child's mouth. A spoon that is too large can cause gagging or discourage self-feeding. Compare the bowl size to your child's mouth width. A spoon bowl about the size of a child's thumb is a good starting point.
Assess the Handle: Look for a handle that is thick enough for a toddler to grip easily. Avoid thin, slippery handles. Designs with ergonomic contours or textured surfaces provide better control. If the spoon keeps slipping out of your child's hand, the handle may be too narrow or smooth.
Choose Safe Materials: Select spoons made from food-grade stainless steel (like 18/10) that are free from harmful chemicals. Avoid plastic spoons that may contain BPA or break into sharp pieces. Ensure the spoon has no sharp edges or rough spots. Stainless steel is dishwasher safe and more hygienic than plastic.
Consider the Weight: A lightweight spoon is easier for a toddler to lift and maneuver. Heavy spoons can tire a child's hand and lead to frustration. Pick up the spoon yourself to gauge its weight before buying. If your child drops the spoon often, it might be too heavy for them.
Look for a Design That Encourages Self-Feeding: Spoons with a shallow bowl and a slightly curved shape help scoop food and keep it from spilling. Some designs have a built-in rest to keep the spoon from touching the table. These features can boost your child's confidence at mealtime. A spoon that makes scooping easier can reduce mess and frustration.

Spoons to Consider

RW2 Bright Children's Spoon: The RW2 Bright Children's Spoon has soft concave detailing on each handle, an updated version of the Alveston cutlery first released in 1962. The concave handle gives small fingers a secure, comfortable grip, helping toddlers learn to feed themselves with less mess.
RW2 Bright Children's Spoon